The setup
Roll two dice. What is ? Before answering, define the machinery. The sample space is the set of all possible outcomes, here 36 equally likely ordered pairs. An event is a subset of : "sum = 7" is , six outcomes, so .
Getting the sample space right is half of every probability puzzle. Most "paradoxes" come from silently using the wrong : unordered instead of ordered pairs, or outcomes that aren't equally likely.